Monday, July 29, 2013

Monday, July 29, 2013 WOW-Zine

Good afternoon, ladies! I hope your week is off to a good start. It's nice to have it a bit cooler today, as I was able to work outside longer than usual. I'd love to hear what each of you is doing today. 

This is the final week of Common Grounds and The Perk until we resume the second week of September. We had a really good at our studies last week, and I'm happy so many of you are making sure you're around to finish up our study in Luke. This week we'll look in depth at Luke 24:13-53. It has become tradition to finish our study for the year with a potluck-ish type get together on the last day. So Wednesday night at 6:30, or Thursday morning at 9:30, bring a little snack to share with the other ladies. It's just a fun way to end our time together. 

Our Rockin' Rockaway Beach Party is Tuesday, August 20th. Remember to invite your friends and their children to come with you. Everyone provides their own lunch and drinks, and maybe some spending money for ice cream at the Tillamook Cheese Factory on the way home. We'll meet around 11 AM at Rockaway.

I still have several spaces open for Women of Faith, October 4th and 5th at the Rose Garden. Tickets are $81. You can make a check out to Wapato Valley Church and hand it to me to reserve your spot. We'll carpool there, and then spend the night at a motel on Friday, and have a nice dinner out on the way home late Saturday afternoon. (Not included in the $81). Tickets are available for as long as they last!

Have you been feeling the need to get a bit more involved in women's ministry? I have two openings on the Women's Ministry Team (WMT) for this year, as a couple of ladies have had to step down due to changes in their lives. If you are committed to being part of a team that provides meaningful connection to our women throughout the year, you may want to sign up! There are a few expectations that come along with the job, such as attending planning meetings on the first Monday of each month (in the evening), being a regular participant in one of the weekly Bible studies for women, and helping with our annual retreat. Please let me know if you're interested, and we can talk about it!

I'm going to close with an article I wrote for the recent Wapato newsletter. I have the feeling that a lot of people don't take the time to read the monthly newsletter, but it's always full of good information. Maybe you'll find you can identify with what I shared:



When Life is Hard
“What you intended for evil, God meant for good.” Genesis 50:20

Those were dark days back then. A heaviness settled over my spirit in a way I’d never experienced before. Oh sure, there had been scattered days here and there where I felt “blue” or “down in the dumps”, but never anything like this. Months passed, but my depression didn’t. It gradually deepened, coloring my life gray, spreading the dullness from the inside out. 

I looked around, trying to figure out the cause of my problem. And you know what I found? Nothing! Anyone looking at me would think my life was very good. I had a husband who loved me. A fulfilling job. Grown children who had blessed me with grand children. We owned our own house. Money, though not in abundance, was certainly sufficient. No health problems. Involvement in the church my husband pastored. Obviously, I had nothing to complain about. My circumstances left nothing to be desired, yet the sense of despair only got worse. 

Have you ever been there? If so, you know what doesn’t work. No husband telling you to “just decide to be happy” can change the feeling. No friends bringing by plates of cookies, hoping to cheer you up. (Chocolate really can’t fix everything!) Not even people saying, “Oh, I’ll pray for you.” No, when depression hits, the solution isn’t easy to find. 

The dark days, though the sky was often sunny, continued. I experienced a profound sense of loss—loss of joy, loss of purpose, loss of feelings, loss of humor, loss of reasons to continue with life. Even the seeming loss of my relationship with the Lord.  I didn’t have a definite plan, but suicide began to sound like an option. I knew I would never be happy again and I had no desire to continue with life the way it was. 

Thankfully, I was open to Christian counseling. Having an unbiased person listen to me, ask me questions, and challenge me to a lot of soul-searching and self-evaluation proved to be my answer. It certainly wasn’t an overnight change, but I gradually began the long journey back to “normal.” I discovered I’d inadvertently bought into the idea that I had to jump through hoops to please God, and I was tired of jumping! This journey became a spiritual rebirth for me (though I had accepted Christ when I was five years old) and my walk with the Lord became based on grace rather than on performance. 

That was about fifteen years ago, and it’s an experience I’ll never forget. I know that Satan wanted to sift me like wheat (Luke 22:31) to show I was only full of impurities and worthless to God. But the Lord allowed that sifting to show that yes, there were attitudes that needed removed from my life, but it was in order to take me to a deeper level in my Christian walk and for Him to use me more in the lives of others. Because of my journey through depression, I’ve been able to relate to a lot of women who struggle with that issue themselves. As I freely share about what it was like, women lose their fear of admitting they have this problem. Not only have I used it one-on-one with women, but I was also able to draw on my experience when I wrote my recently released novel, On the Threshold.  One of the issues covered in the story is a woman who deals with life-threatening depression. The feelings she goes through in the book are based not on “I wonder what it would be like?” but are the nitty-gritty authenticity of one who has been there, done that, and lived to tell about it! God has been able to use one of the hardest times of my life to change me, and in turn, encourage others. 

I don’t know what difficulty God is allowing in your life right now, but rest assured that it’s not by chance or happenstance. There is a purpose behind the pain, and the Lord is in the business of taking what was meant for evil, and changing into something for His good. 

Sherrie Ashcraft, Women's Ministry Director
sherrieashcraft@gmail.com   971-285-6699

Monday, July 22, 2013

Monday, July 22, 2013 WOW-Zine

So did you all survive the busyness of last week? What a full week it was, what with Vacation Bible School Monday through Thursday, and Family Camp up at Big Eddy on Friday through Sunday! Lots of fun to be had by all ages.And the fun isn't over! Amy is putting together a cotton pickin' berry pickin' party this Wednesday. Meet at Heines Blueberry Farm on Vandehey Road (off of Springhill Rd, near Fisher Farms nursery.) Be there with your kiddos at 9 AM to turn your lips blue!

After not meeting last week due to VBS, both women's Bible studies will be meeting this week. Common Grounds will gather Wednesday evening at 6:30, and The Perk gets together on Thursday at 9:30 AM. We are nearly through with our wonderful study through the book of Luke, and will be looking at Luke 23:26--Luke 24:12. I think we've all been amazed at the richness we've discovered as we've taken a closer look at the last few hours before the crucifixion. We will meet again next week for our last session before taking a break until resuming in September. This week ANITA is on for treats for Common Grounds, and for Thursday, NICOLE P. has signed up for snacks. We have no one who has signed up to be the MIC (Mother In Charge) of child care for this Thursday or next. Please let me know if you're willing to serve in that capacity.

Our Darci has to have another surgery this week. Please be praying that the doctor is successful in getting all of the kidney stone out, and that she heals quickly without any complications. A little later she'll have to undergo surgery again to have a stone removed from the other kidney. Women of Wapato are really good about gathering around and helping each other when we have a need. In order to help you help Darci, I've got a meal schedule posted where you can sign up to provide a dinner for this family. Just go to http://www.TakeThemAMeal.com/meals.php?t=BSVC0177 to see where you can plug in. Thanks!

Have you put it on your calendar yet? I'm talking about our Rockin' Good Time at Rockaway Beach on Tuesday, August 20th. This is a chance for you to bring your children or grandchildren and make the beautiful drive over to Rockaway Beach, which is just north of Tillamook. Everyone brings a picnic lunch for their own family and we spend the afternoon yakking up a storm as we watch the kiddos play. It's always a lot of fun, and very relaxing. I'll announce the time as we get closer to the event, but make sure you're planning ahead to attend. And this is certainly something you can invite friends to attend.

Something else to be looking forward to is Women of Faith, coming up the first weekend of October, the 4th and 5th. We were able to pre-buy some tickets at a discounted price when we were there last year. There are 8 of those tickets remaining, and they're on a first-come basis. They cost $81. We get a motel for Friday night, which usually ends up to be about $25 per person. And we stop for a nice dinner (as in, not fast food!) on our way home Saturday. If you're interested in going, let me know. Paying the money will hold your spot!

I think that covers everything I needed to share with you this week. I'll leave you with this thought, from Holley Gerth:

When You Need to Call for Back Up
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I pick up my phone in the middle of a wild week and text the lie that my heart is hearing to a friend. Then I simply ask, “What is the truth? I can’t come up with it right now.” She writes back and tells me what I already know deep inside but can’t quite manage to find in the moment. I read her words over and over then get up with new strength to face the day.

Years ago I wouldn’t have sent that text. I would have tried to come up with the truth on my own. I would have given in to shame and guilt. I would have spend the day thinking about how everyone else was my spiritual than I am and how I should try harder. But I’m learning this…

It’s okay to call for back-up.

Most of us know the story of the man lowered down through a roof by his friends so he could be laid at the feet of Jesus and find healing. What I think many of us don’t realize is that there are days when it’s our hearts, not our bodies, that need the same thing. We think if we can just muster up enough “faith” then we should be able to get there ourselves. But that’s not the way it works.

And, friends, when we refuse to let others help us it’s not being spiritual…it’s pride {ouchie}.

We’re made to share life with each other. We’re made to say, “I need you. Please help me.”Those aren’t words of weakness–they’re the strongest words we can say. Because it’s easy to try to figure things out on our own. It’s much harder to say, “Please carry my heart to Jesus today.” But you know what? The man who was healed that day wasn’t the only one who received a blessing. His friends did too because they got to be part of the work God was doing.

When you really need help and you ask for it, you’re not becoming a burden. You’re offering an opportunity for someone to be part of a blessing. Let that sink in and then send a text, make a phone call, share your heart with someone over coffee. Whatever your heart needs today.
It really is okay to call for back-up.

Sherrie Ashcraft, Women's Ministry Director
sherrieashcraft@gmail.com     971-285-6699

Monday, July 15, 2013

Monday, July 15, 2013 WOW-Zine

I'm just stopping by for a minute or two today, ladies. I know many of you are busy working at Vacation Bible School this week, or with other activities with your children.

So I will simply remind you that our usual programming is cancelled for this week, meaning neither Common Grounds nor The Perk will be meeting. Enjoy the week off and come join us NEXT week and the week after as we finish our fantastic study of the book of Luke!

Sherrie Ashcraft, Women's Ministry Director
sherrieashcraft@gmail.com     971-285-6699

Sunday, July 7, 2013

Sunday, July 7, 2013

Greetings from Laramie, Wyoming! We'll start our trek home after church today and I'll be back to teach Bible studies this week. We just have a few more weeks before we'll be finished with the book of Luke through Jesus, the One and Only. What a great study it has been! I know things get busy during the summer, but I'd like to encourage you to finish strong and join us for the last few weeks. I spent a lot of time studying the other day and it looks like we'll be completing this study a week earlier than I had first thought, with our final lessons will be on July 31st and August 1st.

Common Grounds (Wednesdays, 6:30 PM) will meet July 10th, 24th, and 31st. We will not meet on July 17th since that is the week of Vacation Bible School.

The Perk (Thursdays, 9:30 AM) will meet July 11th, 25th, and August 1st. We will not meet on July 18th due to VBS. Childcare is provided for little ones at The Perk, and older children can be in another room and bring along things to entertain themselves, while still being supervised. I don't have the list with me of who is on for treats and who is the Mother In Charge for this week, so hopefully you remember who you are!

The Bible passage we'll be looking at this week is Luke 22:47-23:25.

We will try to reschedule a berry pickin' party for later this month, so keep your eye out for that announcement. Looking ahead, we have a Rockaway Beach Day for moms and kids on Tuesday, August 20th. Our new Bible study year will begin in September, and Women of Faith comes to Portland the beginning of October. I have eight tickets available for that. More info to come later.

I've missed you these past couple of weeks and will be glad to get home and be able to see you again! Let me know if you want to get together for coffee and conversation one-on-one, as I always enjoy doing that. See you soon!

Sherrie Ashcraft, Women's Ministry Director
sherrieashcraft@gmail.com     971-285-6699