Monday, February 27, 2012

Monday, February 27, 2012 WOW-Zine

Happy sunny Monday, ladies! After the strange mix of weather we had on Saturday, I was thrilled to open the curtains to sunlight this morning. I've opened the curtains of my heart to the Sonlight this morning, too, so I'm feelin' good from the inside out! Hope you feel the same.


We have a rather unusual occurrence this week in that Wednesday is Leap Day. We think it takes the Earth 365 days to orbit the sun each year, but in reality it takes about a quarter of a day longer. So to keep our calendar on track, good ol' Julius Caesar changed things up a bit way back in 45 B.C. and added an extra day every four years. Which bring us to this Wednesday! And according to what I read in The Oregonian the other day, it's even more complicated than that. It turns out that Leap Year is not observed during years that are divisible by 100! Who knew? And what about those lucky people who are born on Leap Year (a Leaper, which is so much better than a leper) and age so much slower than the rest of us? The article I read said that there's about a 1 in 1,500 chance of that happening. Are any of you in that category? We'd love to help you celebrate your rare birthday. 

It just so happens that Common Grounds meets this Wednesday at 6:30 PM at the church. I thought maybe we should play a game of Leap Frog during our social time at the beginning, but then I felt a twinge in my back and thought better of the whole idea! Nor will we decorate the tables with frogs! Instead, we'll gather for some coffee or tea, goodies, great conversation with girl friends, and a study of The Bleeding Woman, as found in Mark 5:25-34. This is a topic that all of us are familiar with in one way or another. It's part of what defines us as women. Yet there's more to this story than meets the eye. Come with a heart open to receive what the Lord wants you to hear and ponder. BTW, you Common Grounds gals, I really missed a lot of you at our last study. I know life gets very busy, but taking care of yourself spiritually is one of the best things you can do. If you're not there, not only do you miss an opportunity for God to speak to your heart and make necessary adjustments in your life or way of thinking, but you're also missing out on God being able to use something you say or do to bless the lives of other women. We each need each other.

The Thursday Perk meets next week at 9:30 AM and will be studying the same passage.  


Retreat registration for our April 13th-15th SeaSide Escape opens March 1st. That's this Thursday, ladies! But like I said at church yesterday, I know some of you are so anxious to sign up and hand over your $80 that you'd be showing up at my front door at 12:01 AM on Thursday. So to avoid that unfortunate event, I'm going to accept registrations a few hours early--at Common Grounds. Remember, the first two weeks of registration are just for those who regularly attend Wapato Valley Church.  But don't panic, women, there will be room for everyone who wants to go, I'm quite sure. So there's no reason to push people out of your way or trample each other in a mad dash to register! (Now there's a visual!) 

On March 14th registration will expand to those who attend either of our Bible studies but go to church elsewhere. Two weeks after that, if we still haven't reached our cap of 40 women, we will open it up to anyone else who would like to come. That's when you can invite your friends or relatives. If for some reason you are unable to attend, I am open to doing a local retreat at my home later in the spring, just as I did last year. We would use the same materials, but just have the event on a Friday evening and all day Saturday. We had a great time doing that last year. 

Some years we've encouraged nursing mothers to attend the retreat as long as their baby is not yet crawling. But with the configuration of this particular retreat, it won't work to do that. It's imperative that each woman in attendance is able to actually be there and not attending to the needs of her baby. So I'm going to have to regretfully ask that all babies remain at home. We have so many young mothers that I'm sure this is going to effect some of you, and I apologize for that. But what we could do is let lap babies be at the secondary retreat at my house later in the spring. I hate to have you young moms miss out, as I know you really need the encouragement. Those of us who are older mothers, grandmas, and even great grandmas know that there are seasons in a woman's life, and sometimes things have to be delayed a bit. So from here on out, plan your child-bearing around women's retreat and you should be just fine!!

WOW Movie Night is this Friday, March 2nd, at my house south of Gaston. Show up around 7 PM with a snack to share. We'll start the movie by 7:30. At this point I'm leaning toward The Young Victoria. This is a lush period piece with beautiful colors and costumes, and tells the story of 18-year-old Victoria ascending the throne and being romanced by her future husband. Feel free to wear your PJs and tiaras when you come!


Exercise classes continue! Zumba classes are held Monday and Wednesday at 4:15 PM at the church. Some of us have tired of Zumba, or just want a change of pace. For those of you in that category, show up on Tuesday and Thursday at 5 PM for an exercise surprise. Last week we busted some moves from The Core DVDs. This week we'll do another one of those on Tuesday, and something different on Thursday. Bring your favorite workout DVD along with you if you'd like us to try it. 

Don't forget about The Art of Marriage conference being offered at the church on Friday, March 16th beginning at 7 PM and going through Saturday afternoon. Childcare is not provided, but you can call the church office ( 503-985-3351) and speak to Becky to get names of babysitters. The workbook costs $35 per couple, and you need to let Becky know you want that by March 1st. Attending a marriage conference is not a sign that you're having problems in your marriage. It's an acknowledgement that marriage is hard work and we need to constantly be acquiring new tools to help us build a stronger marriage. I really hope you'll take advantage of this opportunity, as it's not that often that something of this caliber comes to our small town. 

So as you've read through the WOW-Zine this week, I hope there's at least one thing that has grabbed your interest and you've decided to attend. Common Grounds, exercise class, movie night, marriage seminar, retreat--so many opportunities, so little time! Let me close out today with some great thoughts about speaking without words. (And a special thanks to those of you who are leaving comments!)



Meet Me in the Meadow
Feb 27, 2012 06:00 am | Roy

We can speak—
With the eyes of understanding;
With the ears of alertness;
With the smile of delight;
With the tone of kindness;
With the spirit of compassion;
With the hands of mercy;
With the embrace of acceptance;
With the handshake of friendship;
With the look of interest;
With the tears of compassion;
With the nod of affirmation;
With the touch of tenderness;
With the heart of love;
With a face that radiates His light.

Lift up the light of Your countenance upon us, O Lord. Psalm 4:6 AMP

Let your light shine in front of people. Then they will see the good that you do and praise your Father in heaven. Matthew 5:16 HW


 Sherrie Ashcraft, Women's Ministry Director
sherrieashcraft@yahoo.com   971-285-6699

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Tuesday, February 21, 2012 WOW-Zine

Hello, ladies. I know--it's Tuesday, not Monday. Did you miss me yesterday? Yeah, I figured not! Turns out I was able to go to the beach with a couple of friends for the weekend, and didn't return until Monday afternoon. And since it was a holiday, well, I just figured I'd wait until today to write. So that's my excuse--now on to the news!

While in Lincoln City, we drove by our retreat house. It is still there, looking as gorgeous as ever. And I could hear it whispering to me, "Come here April 13th-15th and bring 39 of your best friends!" So that's my plan. Registration for our SeaSide Escape Retreat opens next Thursday, March 1, for you women who regularly attend Wapato Valley Church. Two weeks later I expect to be inundated with checks from those of you who attend any of the Bible studies. Two weeks after that, we will open it up for you to invite other family or friends if we have still not reached our 40-women cap. Everyone will be sleeping in the house this year (no motels). It's only $80 for a weekend of spending quality time with girl friends and the Lord, plus having plenty of free time for shopping, long walks on the beach, etc. We're holding the retreat later in the spring than usual, as by then you'll have your tax return and we'll be back into Daylight Savings Time, so it won't be dark when those of you who have to leave after work on Friday get there. We're trying to make it as easy on you as possible! Car pool arrangements will be made once we reach our 40-person capacity.  Remember to make checks out to WVC (with women's retreat in the memo section) but give them to me. If you want, you can write your check now and address the envelope to put it in the mail on Wednesday, the 29th, so that I'll receive it the next day (March 1st.) I will also accept checks and registration forms at Common Grounds on the 29th. My mailing address is PO Box 665, Gaston, OR 97119. Let's stuff my mailbox and make the post mistress wonder what's going on! Hopefully you've held on to the registration form that was included in the bulletin this Sunday, but if not, we'll have more available.

This week we have Zumba on Wednesday at 4:15.
We're changing it up at bit, at least for a while, on  Tuesday and Thursday at 5 PM. We're going to do the Core Rhythms dance exercise program. We'll still be groovin' to hot Latin music which gives us cardio conditioning while toning our abs at the same time. Come try it out!

WOW's Movie Night is at my house at 7PM Friday, March 2nd. This is a very laid-back, casual time to enjoy snacks (bring some to share) and a good movie. Please let me know if you're planning on coming. Any movie suggestions by those of you who will be coming?? I know we're competing with a great concert in Portland that same night, but for those of you not attending that, I'd love to have you come hang out with me!

And don't forget about  The Art of Marriage video conference being offered at Wapato on March 16th and 17th. This is a wonderful opportunity for a low-cost way to improve your marriage. Becky has all kinds of information about it in the weekly announcements, as well as at a table in the back of the church. Call her with any questions or to sign up to attend. This is the perfect time for your kiddos to spend some special grandparent-time over the weekend so that you and your spouse can concentrate on providing your children the security of a great marriage. Take advantage of it!

The Thursday Perk meets this week at 9:30 AM at the church.  Feel free to join us this week even if you've never been before. We have a great time enjoying coffee, tea, and a goodie, while studying one of the gals from the Bad Girls of the Bible.This week our lucky subject is known as The Witch of En Dor, as found in I Samuel chapter 28. We had a great time studying this last week at Common Grounds, so if you're home during the day, come join us on Thursday morning so you don't miss out.

I'd like to close with a blog I received last week that I think maybe a lot of you can identify with. Here it is:
 

Heart to Heart with Holley Gerth: 7 Secrets to Overcoming Fear: {1} Go There


Posted: 17 Feb 2012 07:56 AM PST

* THANK YOU for helping my new book, You're Already Amazing, go to #1 on the bestsellers list of Barnes & Noble.com! Woo-hoo! Haven't gotten your copies yet? Amazon now has it half price for a limited time and you get free shipping when you order four (stock up for Easter and Mother's Day gifts!). Y'all are wonderful. *


 We stepped through the door of the laundry room in our newest rental property. My husband pointed to a hole in the back of the wall. "That's the dryer vent," he said, "And we're going to clean it."
He proceeded to unfold a series of flexible sticks with a brush on the end and cram it into the wall. I watched wide-eyed in my skinny jeans and new sweater.
After a few minutes, I got a chance to join the fun. "I'm going to pull the brush back out and I need you to stay by the hole in the wall and make sure it doesn't get stuck."
I crouched down, cute boots and all, and peered into the tiny black space in front of me.
Y'all, what hubby failed to mention is that when the brush gets ready to exit the building so does all the lint it's collected. Do you remember the Monty Python movie when the soldiers are attacked by a killer rabbit? I had a flashback of that scene as the mother of all dust bunnies came flying out of the pipe and exploded all over me.
I got so startled I fell over. And I might have fainted if the sound of hysterical laughter from my husband hadn't kept me conscious.
Because my life is one big analogy, I found myself pondering the dust bunny as I laid in bed that night. While my skinny jeans got covered in fluff, no real harm was done. I just felt like I'd been attacked by a killer rabbit. My reaction didn't match the reality.
It's often the same way with fear. What we imagine is often far worse than what comes to be. And even if it does happen, we discover we're more resilient than we ever knew (and God is more faithful too). But the only way to find that out is to stare fear in the face and let it explode all over of us is needed. Not what we fear but the fear itself--which many times turns out to be worse.
What are you really afraid of?
And if that happened, then what?
And what about after that?
Keep going until you've gone all the way down the pipe of your fear and pulled every little bit back out. Then hold it in your hands and see if you've got a killer rabbit or a dust bunny. You might even find yourself laughing a bit about what you thought was in there.
The secret is not letting all of that fear grow in the dark.
Then stand up, wipe off your skinny jeans, hand it all to God and go out there and change the world...
I believe with all my heart you can.

* THANK YOU for helping my new book, You're Already Amazing, go to #1 on the bestsellers list of Barnes & Noble.com! Woo-hoo! Haven't gotten your copies yet? Amazon now has it half price for a limited time and you get free shipping when you order four (stock up for Easter and Mother's Day gifts!). Y'all are wonderful. *

Isn't that a great story? Don't let the perception of your fears overcome your reality this week! Hope to see you at our events. 

Sherrie Ashcraft, Women's Ministry Director
sherrieashcraft@yahoo.com    971-285-6699 


Monday, February 13, 2012

Monday, February 13, 2012 WOW-Zine

Hello, friends! Welcome to a new week. I hope you all had a wonderful weekend. If you were able to attend the Valentine's Dinner and Concert/Dance, I know you had a great experience. Didn't Janet and Laura do a fantastic job on the food? We are so blessed to have them. Becky guided the evening along at a great pace, and the Women's Ministry Team's collective brain came up with great decorating ideas. Then there was the band. Wow--they were incredible! What a wealth of talent among them. If you weren't able to attend this year, you sure don't want to miss it again next February. As Anita told me, "This is the best-kept secret in Gaston!" We want to let the secret out.

COMMON GROUNDS meets this Wednesday at 6:30 at the church. We'll be studying a section of Scripture that might not be familiar to everyone. (Pun intended--you'll understand once you read the passage!) We'll look at a woman commonly known as The Witch of En Dor, found in I Samuel 28:3-25. (That's also what we'll be studying next week for those of you who come to The Thursday Perk.) 

Coming soon, to a church near you--The Art of Marriage. This video series happens Friday and Saturday, March 16th and 17th at Wapato Valley Church. There's no cost to this, though it is recommended that you purchase the workbook, which is $34.99 per couple. (You and your husband each get one for that price--two workbooks.) Let Becky know ahead of time if you'd like to get one. But this conference isn't just for those who are married. It's for those who are engaged, or for singles who think they might get married in the future.Teachings on how to strengthen relationships are invaluable no matter what our marital status. Be watching the weekly announcements for more info.

SeaSide Escape, our women's retreat for this year, is coasting toward us! Just a reminder that the dates are April 13-15th in Lincoln City. Yes, we're returning to our awesome beach house there. Attendance is capped at 40 women, and it's on a first-come (meaning paid in full) basis. Registration forms will be available soon and registration opens March 1st for those who are regular attendees of Wapato. Two weeks later it will open to those who attend our women's Bible studies, and then two weeks after that open up for you to invite other friends. (That is, if we still have room.) So be putting money aside now so that you'll be ready to plunk down the $80  as soon as your registration group opens up! Checks need to be given to me, but made out to WVC with "retreat" in the memo section.  

Don't forget about the free Zumba classes offered at the church on Monday and Wednesday at 4:15 PM, and Tuesday and Thursday at 5 PM. I'm not sure if we'll meet on Valentine's Day. Those of you who usually attend Tuesday class, let me know if you want to meet this week or not. I don't want to interfere with any romantic plans you may have!

Oh, and don't forget about our WOW MOVIE NIGHT at my house (affectionately known as Ashberry Lane) on Friday, March 2nd beginning at 7 PM. Bring a yummy snack to share, and settle in for a fun evening together watching a movie with your friends.

Okay, ladies, I'm out of here. I appreciate the comments you gals have been leaving lately. It's good to be able to connect via cyber-space as well as in person. Have a great week!

Sherrie Ashcraft, Women's Ministry Director
sherrieashcraft@yahoo.com   971-285-6699 

Monday, February 6, 2012

Monday,February 6, 2012 WOW-Zine

Welcome to a beautiful, sunny morning! Days like this make me feel like it's almost summer. After all, this is warmer than it was a lot of days last June!  I just took a little saunter past my flower bed and saw the first spring bulb blooming--a bright yellow crocus. My alyssum has bloomed all winter, and I have a dianthus that is flowering now. So it sure seems like nature is ready for spring, just as I am. Keep reading to find ways to put some spring in your step during these coming weeks.

THE THURSDAY PERK meets this week at 9:30. You're going to have a guest leader this week--Heidi H. I won't be able to attend as I am involved in something that should have been finished by now, but isn't, and I really want to see it through. So Heidi has graciously agreed to fill in for me. She has my notes from what I taught at Common Grounds last week, so you should all be good to go. Remember, you'll be taking a look at The Woman at the Well, found in John 4. I don't think we have anyone signed up to bring treats for this week, so please leave a comment here if you'd like to be that special person!

I know the color clashes with the paragraph above, but I can't write about Valentine's without using red! Just a reminder about Wapato's Valentine Dinner and Concert this Saturday evening at the church. Doors open at 6:30. Tickets can still be purchased, or you can call the church office and let Becky know how many tickets you'll be buying at the door. Cost is only $10 per person, and childcare is provided for a suggested donation of $2 per child, which includes their dinner. So put on your fancy duds, and we'll see you for a wonderful time on Saturday night. 

We've got a couple of great events coming up next month, so take your calendar down from the wall and write these things in. First, we have a WOW movie night at Ashberry Lane on Friday, March 2nd. This is always just a fun, casual time of getting together for goodies and a fun movie. Show up at 7, and we'll start the movie by 7:30. 

Then on the weekend of March 16th and 17th, Wapato is presenting a video marriage seminar entitled The Art of Marriage, sponsored by FamilyLife Today. Becky will be giving you all the important info in the weekly announcements, but just know that this is something you want to take advantage of. Start planning now to let the kids have a mini-vacation with grandma and grandpa, or a favorite aunt and uncle, as you deserve to take 1-1/2 days to focus on strengthening your marriage. 

Are you putting some money aside each week so you'll be able to sign up for our SeaSide Escape as soon as registration opens on March 1st? It only takes $80 to pay for this weekend of relaxation, laughter, and sharing April 13th-15th. The first 40 women that sign up are the ones that get to go! Remember, regular attendees of Wapato can sign up during the first two weeks of March, then we open it to include those who attend any of our Bible studies, and then two weeks later it's open to your friends. Checks will need to be given to me, but made out to Wapato Valley Church, with "Retreat" written in the memo section. 

Next week COMMON GROUNDS will meet at 6:30 Wednesday evening, the 15th. We're going to jump back into the Old Testament and study The Medium of En Dor, as written about in I Samuel chapter 28. 

In case you're looking ahead, here is the schedule for our Bible studies for the rest of the year:

The Thursday Perk
February 9 and 23
March 8 and 22
April 5 and 26
May 10 and 17

Common Grounds
February 15 and 29
March 14 (only one due to Spring Break)
April 4 and 18
May 10 and 16

I'll close by including the Words for Women I wrote for this month's edition of The Family Journal, which is Wapato's monthly newsletter.   


What Did I Say?I got home from a very busy day and needed to be sure to pass an important message on to my husband. I started in on dinner and when he entered the kitchen I quickly took a moment from my work at the stove and told him what I needed to say. I expected him to make a comment in return, and when he remained silent I was slightly vexed. “Did you hear what I just said?” Then I began to laugh as I said, “Because I can’t remember what it was!” Yep, in that short of time, I had forgotten what I’d just said.

Do I ever do that to God, I wondered? Tell Him something, but immediately forget what it was? Perhaps at church I respond with upraised hands to a worship song, proclaiming I will always trust that He knows what is best for me. But by the time I get home I’m already fretting about how I can best manipulate a complicated situation. Or I tell Him that I’m going to be more disciplined in my life about what I eat and how much time I waste, but before I know it I’m cruising through Facebook while inhaling a chocolate bar.



We can make heartfelt promises to God and yet forget to take the basic steps to carrying them out. It’s as if we say these things to Him and think that’s all we have to do. But we must have a plan in place to bring about these changes we tell Him we want. Maybe it’s by surrounding ourselves with Christian friends who will encourage us and hold us accountable. Perhaps we need to turn off the TV, or go to bed earlier, in order to make time for our daily time in the Word and prayer. There are certain actions we must take to partner together with God to encourage new habits in our lives. Simply forgetting what we’ve said is not an option.

I must admit, however, that there is one verse that directs us to acquire Spiritual Alzheimer’s Disease. It’s in Philippians 3:13 where Paul says, “Forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, I press toward the goal …” We are not bound by our past. Maybe we’ve not been successful in a particular area of our life before, but we’re to leave the past in the past and strain toward what we know God has in our future. It takes focus and effort. It might take you sticking Post-It notes all over your house, reminding you of what you’ve told God you would do. It may necessitate you writing out a daily schedule to make sure you include what you feel God is calling you to. It may be hard work, but God also promises to give us the strength we need to do it.

When I think back to my mind-blank in the kitchen, it makes me feel a bit dumb. But as I read on Facebook this week (who, me? wasting time?)—I’m not a complete idiot. Some parts are missing!


Okay, ladies, that's it for this week! Enjoy the sun as you walk with the Son this week!

Sherrie Ashcraft, Women's Ministry Director
sherrieashcraft@yahoo.com    971-285-6699