Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Tuesday, September 29, 2015 WOW-Zine

Yep, it's that day of the week--WOW-Zine day! I hope this finds all of you doing well, enjoying the blessings of God, and responding in faith to the challenges He may be allowing in your life right now. 

The purchase/sale of Rita's homes was only part of the story regarding the cancellation of her party.  Within in the last two weeks she learned that she has cancer, has had surgery, and will soon begin chemotherapy. Per her doctor's request she will be staying local, so escrow on the new house has stopped. This is a lot for anyone to deal with in such a short amount of time.  She has a lot of doctors appointments and decisions to make and is asking for prayer but also that support come through cards, emails, texts, etc, rather than visits and phone calls while she sorts things out. Please keep her in your prayers during this time. 

The Perk meets Thursday morning from 9:30-11, with childcare available. Jaimie is providing snacks for our time together. That evening from 6:30-8 Common Grounds will gather for our study, and Jaimie is bringing treats for that too! (She's not sure which group she'll be able to attend due to work, so will make double goodies and send them to whichever one she can't come to. Smart lady!) We'll be in Colossians 1:12-14 this week.

Don't forget about the church-wide Harvest Party this Saturday from 5-8 PM at the Krautscheids' on Old Hiway 47. More information is in the Wapato Weekly, or can be found on the website for Wapato Valley Church. You can also sign up for the potluck there. It's a fun activity for your family and friends. 

Coming up on Friday, Oct. 23rd at Karen's (7 PM) is our WOW Movie Night. This is always a fun, relaxing time to bring a goodie and enjoy a great movie together. Put it on your calendar now!

Until next week,
Sherrie Ashcraft, Women's Ministry Director
sherrieashcraft@gmail.com    971-285-6699


Tuesday, September 22, 2015

Tuesday, September 22, 2015 WOW-Zine

It's another week, with another chance to get involved in activities with the Women Of Wapato. The team and I really hope you find at least one place where you can plug in!

I ran this announcement last week, but Janet's phone number was wrong. So here's the correct information:
You're invited to a Going Away party for our own Rita de Groen, who is soon moving to Washington. Rita has been a part of our church and community for many years, and we're sad to see her go.
When: Saturday, Sept. 26th, 5:30 PM
Where: 2751 NW Phillip Rd. (Janet's house)
Hosted by: Karen and Janet
RSVP by: Wednesday the 23rd at 503-539-1518.

Both our women's Bible studies meet this week as usual. We're having rich sessions digging into the book of Colossians. You can join the study at any time. This week Nathalie is bringing snacks for The Perk (Thursday morning from 9:30-11.) That evening Common Grounds meets from 6:30-8, and Janet will be providing goodies for our time together.

Special Note: Nicole Chan has invited all of us ladies (kiddos too) over to her house for lunch right after The Perk this week (Thursday). What a fun idea! Her address is 4268 SW Anderson Rd., Forest Grove. (949-413-9048) This is for all women that can make it--not just ladies who attend The Perk.

Until next week,
Sherrie Ashcraft, Women's Ministry Director
sherrieashcraft@gmail.com    971-285-6699


Tuesday, September 15, 2015

Tuesday, September 15, 2015 WOW-Zine


Happy Tuesday, ladies. I hope your week has gotten off to a good start, and that you're enjoying the change in the weather. 

Both The Perk and Common Grounds (our women's Bible studies) got off to a great start last week. Feel free to jump in this week! We're currently working our way through the first chapter of Colossians, with the challenge of finding a verse or two to memorize and share--your choice. This week Lauren signed up for treats for Common Grounds (Thursday at 6:30 PM), but so far no one volunteered for snacks for The Perk (Thursday at 9:30 AM.)

The monthly Craft Time is scheduled for Monday, September 21st, from 3-5 PM at the home of Carol Gross. (40080 SW Nelson Drive in Gaston. Out by Lauralwood.) Bring any craft project you're working on and enjoy a relaxing time with each other.

You're invited to a Going Away party for our own Rita de Groen, who is soon moving to Washington. Rita has been a part of our church and community for many years, and we're sad to see her go.
When: Saturday, Sept. 26th, 5:30 PM
Where: 2751 NW Phillip Rd. (Janet's house)
Hosted by: Karen and Janet
RSVP by: Wednesday the 23rd at 503-539-1418.

Thanks to all of you who signed up so quickly on Sunday to provide meals for the Woodgate family this week. You guys are awesome in how you take care of each other! Anastasia, we're praying for a quick recovery from your fall.

Until next week,
Sherrie Ashcraft, Women's Ministry Director
sherrieashcraft@gmail.com    971-285-6699


Tuesday, September 8, 2015

Tuesday, September 8, 2015 WOW-Zine

Hello, ladies! A lot of you are in the throes of getting kids off to school in the morning and finding a new schedule for your own life. Please consider this a personal invitation from me to you to meet with us at one of our women's Bible studies this year. If you join us at your earliest opportunity, it will be that much easier to consistently put it on your calendar and simply know that every Thursday you're taking some Me Time to learn more about God and how to apply His Word to your everyday life and challenges. And a wonderful side benefit is that you will develop deep friendships with women who really do care about you and who will help share the burdens you're dealing with. 

This is the week that our studies resume after taking a bit of a break during the summer. Remember, everything is happening on Thursdays now! The Perk will meet at the church at 9:30 AM. We start with snacks (any volunteer to bring something tasty this week?) and childcare for young children is usually available. Bring along a couple of dollars to help pay for a sitter, please. We finish right around 11 AM. Common Grounds will meet at 6:30 in the evenings and run until around 8 PM. (I'm looking for a snack volunteer for this week--any takers?) There is no childcare provided for the evening session. We'll be starting off our new year by studying the book of Colossians--one of my favorites! There's no homework and no book to buy. You can jump in the study at any time. Just bring a notebook and your Bible and you'll be good to go!

The Women's Ministry Team will be meeting tomorrow night to start planning activities we'll offer you during this year. If you have any ideas of things you'd like to see included, shoot me a text or email. (My contact info is always at the end of the WOW-Zine.)

The monthly Craft Time is scheduled for Monday, September 21st, from 3-5 PM at the home of Carol Gross. (40080 SW Nelson Drive in Gaston. Out by Lauralwood.) Bring any craft project you're working on and enjoy a relaxing time with each other.

I was talking earlier about one of the perks of attending Bible study is the formation of deep friendships and people to stand beside you though the hard times we all face. When you know people who have to deal with the garbage of life, how do you react? Sometimes we have no idea what to do or say, and sometimes we err the opposite way and think we know exactly what they're going through and how they should fix it. Here's some good advice from our blogger friend, Holley Gerth.

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Helping Someone When You’ve Never Been in Their Situation
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Big Yellow Umbrella Card by DaySpring - Holley Gerth
I often get notes from people saying something like, “My friend/family member is going through a hard time but I don’t feel like I can help because I haven’t been through the same thing.” Here’s my response:“You don’t have to experience the same storm to know what it’s like to get wet.”
I’m certain you know what it’s like to feel soaked to the bone by discouragement, have fear thundering above you or watch a dream wash away. Don’t we all? It’s not our ability to duplicate details but to relate on a heart level that lets us have empathy and be able to encourage.
I once wrote a card for DaySpring that says:
I wish I had a big, yellow umbrella that would keep all the rain out of your life.
I would hold it over your head and the drops would splash, splash and you would never even feel it.
But I don’t have a big yellow umbrella, so I’ll walk through the rain with you.
When it comes to living that out, here are three ways you can walk through the rain with someone no matter what storm they’re facing:
1) Simply listen. When I did grief support groups I heard people say over and over again, “It was so comforting when someone just let me talk and cried with me.” When we’re hurting, what we need most isn’t answers; it’s to know we’re not alone.
2) Be a safe place. When someone shares their struggles with us, we’re to treat them with care like precious treasures. After all, it seems that’s what God does. “Put my tears into Your bottle; Are they not in Your book?” {Ps. 56:8}. These three C’s can help us remember how to do so: Nevercriticize or condemn. Always keep it confidential.
3) Don’t try to fix it. When I got a masters degree in counseling we were told over and over, avoid giving advice. We empower people most when we trust them to figure out their own lives with God’s help. We are simply there to be an encouragement and sounding board.
Ironically, the need to prove we’re useful can push us to talk too much and try too hard. When we feel that pressure, we can take a deep breath and remember we don’t have to be anyone’s God, Jesus or Holy Spirit. It’s not within our power to resolve the problem, change the circumstance or even make the pain go away. In other words, we can’t make the sun come out again.
That reality doesn’t mean we’re a failure. It simply means we’re not God.
So what is success when it comes to helping others in our lives? After hearing from thousands of hurting people I’ve come to believe it’s simply this: Having the courage to step into the rain–even if it’s not our storm.
So ladies, here's to a year of taking turns holding umbrellas for each other!

Until next week,
Sherrie Ashcraft, Women's Ministry Director
sherrieashcraft@gmail.com     971-285-6699




Monday, August 31, 2015

Monday, August 31, 2015 WOW-Zine

Good morning, ladies. I'm headed out the door to the coast in a few minutes, so this will be very short. (Which is the opposite of me!) I just want to remind you of a few things. 

The Perk and Common Grounds (our two women's Bible studies) resume NEXT week, Thursday the 10th. Remember that they will both meet on the same day of the week this year. These are very casual studies, meaning there is no book to buy or homework to do, and you can join us at any time. Just bring a Bible and notebook. We'll be working our way through the book of Colossians. The Perk meets from 9:30 AM to 11 AM (childcare provided) and Common Grounds meets from 6:30 PM to 8 PM.

Time is quickly running out to register for the Beth Moore Simulcast. Your last opportunity to sign up for the one being held  on Saturday, September 12, at Grace Baptist Church in Newberg, is this Friday, the 4th. Go to this link to get more information about what the day entails: 
https://fbcnewberg.radiantwebtools.com/

Until next week,
Sherrie Ashcraft, Women's Ministry Director
sherrieashcraft@gmail.com     971-285-6699

Tuesday, August 25, 2015

Tuesday, August 25, 2015 WOW-Zine

Hello there! If you read last week's WOW-Zine and remember everything you read, you don't need to bother to keep reading! This is basically a rehash (kind of like leftovers!) of last week's information. But if for some reason you never got around to checking out last week's edition, you'll want to be sure to peruse this now. 

Both Common Grounds and The Perk, which are our women's Bible study groups, will resume on Thursday, September 10th. Yes, you read that right. Both groups will meet on Thursdays this year. (That frees the youth group to be able to meet in the sanctuary on Wednesday evenings and have the space they need for their activities.) So those of you who used to come on Wednesday nights will need to start programming your brain AND your calendar to come on Thursday nights instead. 

This evening is  the One Heart: PDX concert for women and teen girls only. Apparently tickets are still available online, as well as at the door. Here's the info:



One Heart: PDX

August 25 @ 6:00 pm

| $12
ONE HEART: PDX is an all-women’s event where women from around our city are gathering together to have a conversation on unity, friendship and the importance of community AND for a concert and time of worship…TOGETHER!
ONE HEART: PDX is all about…
The Music… The Music…Three unique and influential Portland artists are coming together to provide the music for ONE HEART: PDX. The evening will include original tunes from all three singer/songwriters ranging from soul to indie and folk sounds, as well as classic hymns and worship songs. This will be a fresh collaboration you will not want to miss.
Meet the Artists


Holly Ann
Holly Ann


Liz Vice
Liz Vice


Hanna Glavor
Hannah Glavor
The SpeakersAre some really amazing women who are vibrant, real, authentic and from right here in Portland.  They are speakers, teachers, bloggers, writers, ministry leaders and prayer warriors, who are chasing after the heart of Christ.
Meet the Speakers


Bethany Allen
Bethany Allen


Joy Eggerich
Joy Eggerichs


Eva Cruz Pena
Eva Cruz Pena


Bri Henderson
Bri Henderson


Lauren Saruk
Lauren Saruk
The Food…There will be fabulous light bites, tapas and appetizers catered by The Lambs Table starting at 6 pm. Sweet treats will be served during intermission. All included in the ticket price.
The Purpose…How can we stop judging, comparing, and critiquing?  Let’s have a conversation on how to encourage, support and build-up.
“As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend.”  Proverbs 27:17
We've enjoyed several Beth Moore Bible studies throughout our years together. Some of us even got to see her in person in Eugene. Well now I have the next-best thing for you--enjoying Beth's ministry through a simulcast. This event will happen on Saturday, September 12, at Grace Baptist Church in Newberg. Go to this link to get more information about what the day entails: 
https://fbcnewberg.radiantwebtools.com/

You can register there online, and the cost is only $25, including snacks and lunch. Last day to register is September 4th. I got my ticket and hope you will too!

I hope you're enjoying the last few days before school starts and life becomes a different kind of busy!

Until next week,
Sherrie Ashcraft, Women's Ministry Director
sherrieashcraft@gmail.com     971-285-6699

Monday, August 17, 2015

Hi,
Hi, ladies! It's been a couple of weeks since I last wrote , but I've got a lot of information to pass on to you today. Please keep this for future reference.

This afternoon from 3-5 is the monthly Craft Party at Carol Gross's house. Bring whatever project you're working on and have a sweet afternoon together. 40080 SW Nelson Dr. (out by Laurelwood.) Her phone number is 503-680-5542.

If you signed up to bring cookies for the Cookie Walk at the Gaston Parade on Friday, please don't forget! Karen is heading it up this year, and she needs more people to work that booth. Activities will not be going on during the actual parade itself, but before and after. If you can help for 30 minutes, give Karen a call at 503-809-1116.

Both Common Grounds and The Perk, which are our women's Bible study groups, will resume on Thursday, September 10th. Yes, you read that right. Both groups will meet on Thursdays this year. (That frees the youth group to be able to meet in the sanctuary on Wednesday evenings and have the space they need for their activities.) So those of you who used to come on Wednesday nights will need to start programming your brain AND your calendar to come on Thursday nights instead. 

Anyone want to join me  next Tuesday, the 25th for a super fun event? You'll need to buy the tickets on your own, but it would sure be fun to carpool to Portland. (Especially if someone else knows how to get to the Aladdin Theater!) This evening is for women and teen girls only. Please let me know right away if you plan on attending, and we can get rides worked out. Here's the info:



One Heart: PDX

August 25 @ 6:00 pm

| $12
ONE HEART: PDX is an all-women’s event where women from around our city are gathering together to have a conversation on unity, friendship and the importance of community AND for a concert and time of worship…TOGETHER!
ONE HEART: PDX is all about…
The Music… The Music…Three unique and influential Portland artists are coming together to provide the music for ONE HEART: PDX. The evening will include original tunes from all three singer/songwriters ranging from soul to indie and folk sounds, as well as classic hymns and worship songs. This will be a fresh collaboration you will not want to miss.
Meet the Artists

Holly Ann
Holly Ann

Liz Vice
Liz Vice

Hanna Glavor
Hannah Glavor
The SpeakersAre some really amazing women who are vibrant, real, authentic and from right here in Portland.  They are speakers, teachers, bloggers, writers, ministry leaders and prayer warriors, who are chasing after the heart of Christ.
Meet the Speakers

Bethany Allen
Bethany Allen

Joy Eggerich
Joy Eggerichs

Eva Cruz Pena
Eva Cruz Pena

Bri Henderson
Bri Henderson

Lauren Saruk
Lauren Saruk
The Food…There will be fabulous light bites, tapas and appetizers catered by The Lambs Table starting at 6 pm. Sweet treats will be served during intermission. All included in the ticket price.
The Purpose…How can we stop judging, comparing, and critiquing?  Let’s have a conversation on how to encourage, support and build-up.
“As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend.”  Proverbs 27:17
We've enjoyed several Beth Moore Bible studies throughout our years together. Some of us even got to see her in person in Eugene. Well now I have the next-best thing for you--enjoying Beth's ministry through a simulcast. This event will happen on Saturday, September 12, at Grace Baptist Church in Newberg. Go to this link to get more information about what the day entails: 
https://fbcnewberg.radiantwebtools.com/

You can register there online, and the cost is only $25, including snacks and lunch. Last day to register is September 4th. I'm definitely going and hope you will too!

Remember our retreat speaker from April 2014, Laurie Sheffield? Here's a recent blog post of hers. Worth the read!



We Need Each Other!


One of my favorite, most romantic gifts ever was covered in cobwebs, rusty and from a garage sale! For someone that’s a bit of a germaphobe this is kind of a funny thing to say… but it was something I really wanted… and on our very tight newly married budget, there was no way we could afford what I’d dreamed of. A tandem bike! I imagined my husband and I taking long bike rides through our neighborhood and to the market to get a few groceries in the cute basket I would put on the front. It all just seemed like something out of a movie. So when we spotted this old rusty tandem Schwinn at the garage sale hidden behind some newer bikes, my heart leapt with love for it and the romantic rides that were going to follow!! The kind man hosting the sale let us have it for practically nothing…warning us it was really old and needed work. “Who doesn’t?” I thought.

Back seat riders…

We rode that bike EVERYWHERE! We added a basket (just like I’d imagined) to the front and ultimately a baby seat to the back… It was the best. It’s true, itwas really old so we had it tuned up as best as we could, but there wasn’t anything we could do about how heavy it was…just share in the load! I’m certain we put hundreds of miles on that old beater…The more time we spent on the bike the better we got at knowing what we needed from each other… sometimes with just small signals, even in our leans. I had to really trust the front seat driver because I couldn’t really see around him. Sometimes I’d want to quit, but Mike would always remind me how much I wanted this….When Mike took a bug to the face he learned he couldn’t spit sideways…it always flew back at me…I bet you can imagine how this conversation went…(romantic?). And he needed me to pedal harder up hills not just rest and let him carry the load! These may seem like “duhs”…but sometimes I’d just get captivated in the distracting things along the way!! We were a good team and really worked in tandem on the tandem!! As time went on, I loaded the basket up front heavier with more and more groceries making the handles harder to hold steady. Mike never complained.
When our oldest daughter, Erica, was in first grade and my middle daughter was big enough to be in the baby seat I had a great idea!! I was going to take over the captain’s seat, and convert a 30 minute walk with a stroller and a dawdling toddler into a 10 minute bike ride.
I hadn’t realized just how much work being the captain of the ship or the captain of the bike was! I put Erica on my old seat and her backpack in the cute little front grocery basket…WOW! How did Mike hold these handlebars steady with my added groceries every time we went to the store? Would I be able to make the turns?
And my daughter’s little legs weren’t quite long enough for her feet to reach the pedals so I just propped them up on the cross bar. Mike never said a word when I didn’t feel like pedaling and just “rested” mine here for a few minutes! And the weight of that 20 pound two year old in the back!! Were we SURE she only weighed 20 lbs? It felt like she was tipping the scale at 100! It was almost impossible to keep the bike balanced and safe!
I rode all the way to school dropped Erica off and just walked the heavy bike, and my dawdling 20 pound two year old home.

We Need Each Other!

I quickly recognized all of the work my riding partner had been doing and all of the responsibility he had been shouldering when I took his position. If you’re always a backseat rider, you can’t really ever see what’s needed up front. My arms would never get stronger to hold the handle bars straight, and my legs would never be able to pull the weight for two or three of us withoutdoing it! I was not able to balance the bike without someone there who was leaning with me.
Sure, sometimes when you go through life with someone, you’re going to take a bug or two to the face…maybe even wear a little spit. But how else are you going to figure out how to tell each other that this is not the best way to do things if you’re not talking about it and going through it together?? Besides…the bug guts made us such better communicators so quickly! When you rely on each other and talk things through, it makes you better. I wanted to be a good counterbalance, because I saw how spending time together made us both stronger. Doing things together makes you individually better. It makes us better husbands and wives, partners and friends. We NEED each other!
For if they fall, one will lift up another. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!
Again, if two lie together, they keep warm, but how can one keep warm alone? And though a man may prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him – A threefold cord is not quickly broken!
Ecclesiastes 4:10-12

Laurie Sheiffield
Are you living for the JOY of It?